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Body Doubling Explained

If this is the first time you're hearing about body doubling - welcome!

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Body doubling =
a method of getting things done alongside others
Body double = the person helping someone to get things done.

On a film set, a body double stands in for an actor and the term is most commonly known in the context of films and tv shows. ADHDers have adopted the term to create their own definition!

The body double provides support through company - they aren't there to help with the task.

 In online ADHD spaces & communities a body double can look like, 

  • Someone who sits quietly next to someone else as they work

  • Someone who does their own tasks alongside someone else

  • 2 or more people, with each person being both a body double, and a person requiring a body double!

    BTW - That last one is how we do it in the membership!

 
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 A body double might help ADHDers struggling with, 

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Focus

A body double can act as an anchor for ADHDers with wandering minds.

Just like an anchor keeps a boat from drifting, a body double's presence can help distracted ADHDers to stay focused and on task.

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Hyperactivity

A body double's calm presence may help those with hyperactivity.

Being around someone calm and focused may subconciously encourage an ADHDer to match that energy. It may also help to reduce overstimulation.

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Overwhelm

A body double may help when it comes to task overwhelm.

The thought of facing tasks alone could add more stress. Not feeling isolated could make it easier to start & manage tasks and overwhelm.

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Distractibility

A body double may help with distractibility and provide accountability.

It can be helpful to have a little bit of pressure to stay on task. It's harder to wander away (or abandon a task) when someone's there watching!

If you’ve ever said to somebody, "I don't need you to help me, I just need you to keep me company as I do this!” you may have been requesting a body double without realising it!

 
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  • From chatting to others who body double, (and looking at my own experiences) I’ve found some similarities in work preferences!

    5 Points I’ve Noticed From Many (But Not All) ADHD People Who Benefit From Body Doubling

    1. They work better in cafes or busy environments than home alone in a quiet home office.

      Many people I’ve spoken to who use body doubling have told me they find themselves using headphones to block out the sound, but enjoy being in the company of other people getting things done!

    2. They often put on a TV show as they clean/do tasks, but they aren’t 100% focused on it as it’s mostly there for “company”.

    3. Through the pandemic they struggled to adjust from working in an office to suddenly working from home.

      I’ve spoken to a lot of people who identify as being an introvert, who love the idea of working from home, but were surprised by how much harder they found working from home to working in an office environment with company.

    4. They find themselves drawn to cleaning and tidying up or doing tasks when a friend is over and if the friend offers to help, they’ll make a point of saying, “Honesty, just keeping me company is a huge help!”and they mean it!

    5. As kids, they struggled to do homework at their desk alone in their bedroom. Many found it easier to do homework at the kitchen table as a parent cooked,

      or they found it easier to clean their room when a sibling or friend was sitting on the end of their bed keeping them company!

    This isn’t a complete list of examples or an official checklist - just a collection of experiences from myself and others with ADHD who use body doubling!

    Distractibility is a huge problem in most work environments for many with ADHD - but those who body double tend to find that having company helps them more than being alone does!

  • It doesn’t!

    My body doubling membership is online, and people body double virtually using Zoom and have found it beneficial!

    This can be helpful for those who are more socially anxious, or those who don’t have someone they can body double with in person.

  • This is going to be down to the individual and what tasks they struggle with! But I would say it’s helpful for;

    • tasks you’ve been putting off

    • tasks that have multiple steps

    • tasks that require sustained focus

    • tasks that cause upset, anxiety and/or shame

    • tasks you struggle to motivate for

    • tasks you struggle to sit still for

    Here are 10 of the most common tasks I see popping up on the body doubling sessions I run!

    1. laundry (folding and ironing clothes)

    2. dishes

    3. cleaning

    4. emails and paying bills online

    5. studying

    6. music practice

    7. reading

    8. journaling

    9. making scary phone calls

    10. tidying or decluttering the house

 
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